My name is Deborah, but most folks know me as Dejibo.
I worked for many years as a jail house nurse, and inner city paramedic. Tons of fun, and I can honestly say they were some of the best years of my life. I learned so much from all of my patients whether they were incarcerated by the penal system, or incarcerated by disease, or injury. From hand holding those who were leaving this life, to pulling out those who were just coming into it. It was truly my honor to have served in such a valuable capacity in such intimate moments in the lives of others.
I just turned 46. I survived breast cancer in my 20’s. I was told I probably wouldn’t live to see 30, so for me to just celebrate my 46th year is pretty good. I was diagnosed with MS in 2006. I can tell you it was quite a shock. No where on my radar screen was MS. I had symptoms for years, but never put the dots together. Since I am a Native American, its extremely rare for it to pop up anywhere near me. I guess I am one of those that medical people scratch their heads at.
I met my husband at a local jail house in 1987. I was a new recruit, and out to prove that I was as rough and tough as the men I worked with. As one of the first women to work in the prison system inner sanctum, I quickly found I had my work cut out for me.
The cutest booking officer in the world, took a special liking to me, and proved to be extremely helpful in pointing me through the maze I had found myself in. Quick and bright, it wasn’t long before I knew I would be taking him home with me. We just celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary.
He has truly been a source of strength and comfort through many trials that have been laid before us. He has stood proudly beside me and walked through many dark days. I would be completely lost without him. He recently retired as a Lieutenant and refused an offer of Captain before leaving. I am happy to have him home with me.
I have two children. My son has been a source of joy, wonder and amazement for all the days that I have been privileged to have him in my life. A curious child who has always been quick with a smile, and a fast way out of trouble. My daughter is a book worm with a serious side, yet never fails to see the humor in all things. Celiac disease has been her cross to bear. She has learned more about diet and nutrition than I will ever have the desire to learn.
After a serious fall a few years ago, I was forced to retire. I fought to stay on board, but it was simply not possible. I truly was more of a hindrance than a helper. I feared retirement, and thought for sure that it would mean the end of my life, but it turned out to be the beginning. I have found time to do many projects that would have flown past me at lightening speed before. Like this space! I have since slowed down to a pace that allows me to do many things that I enjoy. I cannot believe I ever found time to do a thing with the schedule that I was keeping.
MS has proven to be a challenge for me, and I am struggling to get into an upright position. With a dropped foot and vestibular problem, some days are quite challenging.
It has been my great pleasure to be asked to come and join the wonderful staff here. Thank you so much for asking me. I hope I am able to be helpful, and kind.
Thanks!
Feel free to e-mail me: Dejibo
