I read a lot of different things that people are told about MS
& many I have experienced. This one was brand new to me
& said right to my face.
At an out of state wedding in a large city, I inquired about
the bride's new MIL & that I understood she had recently
been diagnosed with MS. Oh, no, you have received
incorrect info, she was diagnosed a few years ago, had
some treatments & now she' s basically ok!
I kindly smiled, said that was great news & she is definitely
a lucky woman &I hoped her good fortune. I was about
to slowly walk away with my cane, left drop foot dragging
when she put the cherry on top of the 4 feet of cool whip
covered perfect piece of cake. You know, they are doing
so many new things with MS research & new treatments,
no need for folks to suffer & their disease to progress now.
Such a sweet look of condescension got me dragging away to
a safe haven before the tears started rolling.
I later ranted & raved, to my DH about no longer having a clever answer now that my brain is about 30 years older than
me. BUT, the next morning, I awoke & realized that most
likely all of these people from 2 different large cities are
considering that this poor ole rural resident married to
their cousin is so messed up because she's never seen
a really Good Neurologist. All not true, but I couldn't spit
it out. Hurt feelings are now replaced by wild --- ANGER.
Thanks for letting me spew out some of my burning guts!!!
& many I have experienced. This one was brand new to me
& said right to my face.
At an out of state wedding in a large city, I inquired about
the bride's new MIL & that I understood she had recently
been diagnosed with MS. Oh, no, you have received
incorrect info, she was diagnosed a few years ago, had
some treatments & now she' s basically ok!
I kindly smiled, said that was great news & she is definitely
a lucky woman &I hoped her good fortune. I was about
to slowly walk away with my cane, left drop foot dragging
when she put the cherry on top of the 4 feet of cool whip
covered perfect piece of cake. You know, they are doing
so many new things with MS research & new treatments,
no need for folks to suffer & their disease to progress now.
Such a sweet look of condescension got me dragging away to
a safe haven before the tears started rolling.
I later ranted & raved, to my DH about no longer having a clever answer now that my brain is about 30 years older than
me. BUT, the next morning, I awoke & realized that most
likely all of these people from 2 different large cities are
considering that this poor ole rural resident married to
their cousin is so messed up because she's never seen
a really Good Neurologist. All not true, but I couldn't spit
it out. Hurt feelings are now replaced by wild --- ANGER.
Thanks for letting me spew out some of my burning guts!!!
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