I have suffered with panic attacks and severe anxiety my whole life. I was diagnosed with MS in 2008. Since beginning treatment, my anxiety seems to have been getting worse and worse. I've been angry with my husband and really not fair. I have talked openly with him about suicide...not because I want to, because I feel that all my issues are a burden to my family.
My husband and I have been together for 20 years. He finally told me last Thursday that he didn't know how much more he could take and talked of leaving me and taking our son. He feels that I have been pushing him away for years.
I know that the suicide talk is something my mother used to do to me as a child. She used that word to manipulate us into doing what she wanted. I promised myself I would never say the word, but I find myself increasingly desperate. Maybe I will get better for a while, but what about the next time my anxiety gets out of hand?
I always thought my spouse would be there for me no matter what. Now that I know there is a limit (and he is right about how I have been treating him), I cannot shake the fact that I could lose everything at any time.
I see a new therapist next Tuesday. I see a psychiatrist regularly. We are also going to start couples councelling. I know I am on the right track, but I cannot seem to get my anxiety under control. We have tried different meds. Hopefully seeing a counselor again will help.
How do I get past the anxiety of thinking he's going to leave me? He says as long as I am getting help, he'll be there. I am getting help, but I still don't feel like I'm doing enough.
I don't have a plan. I have never attempted suicide. I know I won't do it. I just really regret saying it to him so many times that he is scared of me, and rightfully so. He can't know that it is just the empty talk of a desperate woman.
Has anyone else had increased anxiety after diagnosis? How did you deal with it?
My husband and I have been together for 20 years. He finally told me last Thursday that he didn't know how much more he could take and talked of leaving me and taking our son. He feels that I have been pushing him away for years.
I know that the suicide talk is something my mother used to do to me as a child. She used that word to manipulate us into doing what she wanted. I promised myself I would never say the word, but I find myself increasingly desperate. Maybe I will get better for a while, but what about the next time my anxiety gets out of hand?
I always thought my spouse would be there for me no matter what. Now that I know there is a limit (and he is right about how I have been treating him), I cannot shake the fact that I could lose everything at any time.
I see a new therapist next Tuesday. I see a psychiatrist regularly. We are also going to start couples councelling. I know I am on the right track, but I cannot seem to get my anxiety under control. We have tried different meds. Hopefully seeing a counselor again will help.
How do I get past the anxiety of thinking he's going to leave me? He says as long as I am getting help, he'll be there. I am getting help, but I still don't feel like I'm doing enough.
I don't have a plan. I have never attempted suicide. I know I won't do it. I just really regret saying it to him so many times that he is scared of me, and rightfully so. He can't know that it is just the empty talk of a desperate woman.
Has anyone else had increased anxiety after diagnosis? How did you deal with it?
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