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Originally posted by misslux View PostThat is shocking. Did anyone complain? I would have raised hell.
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Originally posted by misslux View PostI don't think anyone was suggesting the OP ask for a change in venue if things are already booked, but to make it clear that these places are inaccessible to avoid this type of thing in the future.
It is all well and good to accept that there are things/places we will not be able to go to, but a little education goes a long way especially for future accomodations for everyone. If nothing is said, then the opportunity to educate is lost.
Do I expect people to consider accomodations for "just" me? No. I expect people to consider them for anyone.
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Originally posted by poppydarling View PostOh, our "support" group is held in a room in a massive building, two city blocks away from the nearest handicapped spots, up a steep flight of stairs or a ramp that takes you half a building away from the direction you need to go in. When I asked where the elevators were, they said they didn't work on MS meeting days. I don't attend anymore.
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I'm with Misslux....it is quite outrageous that a NMSS Chapter is not sensitive to the physical layout of the venues in which they hold events. This is just crazy. I bet the National would just die if they knew (hint hint).
I always try to resolve 1-on-1 first, but I have no problem filing a complaint (officially if need be) if the issue isn't resolved.
NMSS Chapters should model this behavior, and I'm extremely upset to hear that folks trying to access events and support groups are unable to do so.
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I agree that, while it's hurtful and disappointing to feel excluded in such a way, it probably wasn't intentional and doesn't require an extreme response.
Most people don't get it. In fact, almost nobody does. My husband is the sweetest and most understanding guy on the planet and he's been with me since before MS, so he knows the toll it's taken on me, and even HE doesn't get it sometimes.
So yeah, like PP's have said, don't assume the worst and let them know your needs for future reference.Aitch - Writer, historian, wondermom. First symptoms in my teens, DX'd in my twenties, disabled in my thirties. Still the luckiest girl in the world.
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This is so hard. In May my son will be graduating from medical school. He wants so much for me to be at the ceremony. Having me absent at these events has left a hole in his heart. Right now I think I won't go. We would have to rent a wheelchair and my ex would have to push it. Then, will there be handicapped seating?
But maybe I should try.
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Originally posted by misslux View PostThat is so crazy! Was this an official group of the NMSS? Geez, I'd be tempted to contact the local media.
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