Originally posted by KatieAgain
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Really don't want to complicate my life, though. I don't handle stress so well and that is a big reservation. Any relationship takes energy. If it doesn't take any energy~~I'll re-think that with serious, consideration.
Looking at life though; I don't think I'd want to marry someone that was unwilling to commit in writing~~
'Thru sickness and..' some people know at a young age they won't be there for you, if you do get ill.
And if married, bailing out or being emotionally unavailable to the one you loved while healthy---ehh, just gotta hand it to all the married folks that have been taking care of their mates and giving up their own lives, to do so! Any serious illness effects both people in the marriage.
None of us want or expect serious illness, but that is what EVERY PERSON regardless of disease, etc. deserves and NOTHING LESS. For me, I've never found that one. Until now and its difficult to make that decision. Even thinking about it, stresses me! fed
but, it'd be nice to have coffee in the morning with someone that is that caring! fed
If nothing else, MS has made me more impatient with the small things and more realistic with the life changing things and pragmatic.
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