My name is Michelle, I am the Mother of four vivacious daughters and we live in the Northeast.
My 2nd daughter, 19 year old, was diagnosed with MS 1.5 weeks ago.
Four weeks prior to the diagnosis, she experienced double vision for a week, Mother of the Year told her it was probably her sinuses. (She told me for days, I can't believe my sinuses would made me see double) Yup, your sinuses honey. The symptoms subsided after several days of antibiotics.
A week and a half ago she came to me and told me that something was wrong and that she thought she was going to have a stroke. I chuckled and told her that you don't "get ready for a stroke" and asked what was wrong. She said her right side was weak and "tingly" and that she couldn't really feel her last two fingers and her foot felt like it was stepping on nails when she walked. Again, I put on my Mother of the Year hat and told her she was fine, likely a pinched nerve from working out and suggested she take a hot bath (great for MS), ibuprofen and get some sleep.
The next day she wasn't able to grip a pen at work and then fell down the stairs when her right leg went out. She was sent to the ER, they called and suggested a possible stroke. (Imagine how I felt, I didn't wear my MOTY hat into the ER, left it in the car.)
When I arrived in the ER they said her labs were all normal but they noted "something on her right frontal lobe in the CT scan." They admitted her and performed the MRI. I reassured myself it was nothing. If her labs were normal, there was no malignancy, likely an aneurysm, benign tumor, calcification or bad CT scan. We'd be home by dinner and if not, all were treatable.
Imagine my surprise when they found "many lesions" on the MRI.
So, here we are a week and a half later.
I just "came out" on facebook yesterday, thanking those who quietly reached out through messages and telling my facebook world about her diagnosis. I've begun sharing my daughters dx with others. I'm not quite sure how I feel about the responses, I think I've had it with hearing, "I'm sorry." I mean, I get it. But please don't be sorry or at least don't WRITE it on my facebook page where my daughter can read it! Sorry, really?
We are thankful Don't get me wrong, I'm not happy, I'm not wearing the wristband yet, I haven't added the "proud mom of daughter living with MS" to my signature but short of a few crying fits in the shower and car when I'm alone, I am so very, very thankful.
Based on everything I've read in a week, MS is a very manageable disease. The advances made in the past 20 years have made MS a chronic disease which can be managed while LIVING LIFE to the fullest! We all have aches and pains, without MS at the end of our name and truly, millions of families would trade places with us in a second. For this, I am so very thankful to sit here and read the MSWorld page vs sites dealing with end stage care, hospice, brain cancer, ALS or even Lupus. MS is a gift when compared to the other options out there...
My daughter completed the Solumedrol treatment, a six hour trial of Gilenya and is now on the daily. Just today, her limp seems a little better and she says that feeling is coming back to her pinky finger, praise the Lord. No matter what lies ahead, we are ready. We will be her armor and we will fight the fight with her!
So, I am thankful for this site and I look forward to expanding my world as I learn more about MS and fellow loved ones LIVING with MS!
I thank you for the opportunity to share this journey with you!
Michelle AKA "Mother of The Year!"
My 2nd daughter, 19 year old, was diagnosed with MS 1.5 weeks ago.
Four weeks prior to the diagnosis, she experienced double vision for a week, Mother of the Year told her it was probably her sinuses. (She told me for days, I can't believe my sinuses would made me see double) Yup, your sinuses honey. The symptoms subsided after several days of antibiotics.
A week and a half ago she came to me and told me that something was wrong and that she thought she was going to have a stroke. I chuckled and told her that you don't "get ready for a stroke" and asked what was wrong. She said her right side was weak and "tingly" and that she couldn't really feel her last two fingers and her foot felt like it was stepping on nails when she walked. Again, I put on my Mother of the Year hat and told her she was fine, likely a pinched nerve from working out and suggested she take a hot bath (great for MS), ibuprofen and get some sleep.
The next day she wasn't able to grip a pen at work and then fell down the stairs when her right leg went out. She was sent to the ER, they called and suggested a possible stroke. (Imagine how I felt, I didn't wear my MOTY hat into the ER, left it in the car.)
When I arrived in the ER they said her labs were all normal but they noted "something on her right frontal lobe in the CT scan." They admitted her and performed the MRI. I reassured myself it was nothing. If her labs were normal, there was no malignancy, likely an aneurysm, benign tumor, calcification or bad CT scan. We'd be home by dinner and if not, all were treatable.
Imagine my surprise when they found "many lesions" on the MRI.
So, here we are a week and a half later.
I just "came out" on facebook yesterday, thanking those who quietly reached out through messages and telling my facebook world about her diagnosis. I've begun sharing my daughters dx with others. I'm not quite sure how I feel about the responses, I think I've had it with hearing, "I'm sorry." I mean, I get it. But please don't be sorry or at least don't WRITE it on my facebook page where my daughter can read it! Sorry, really?
We are thankful Don't get me wrong, I'm not happy, I'm not wearing the wristband yet, I haven't added the "proud mom of daughter living with MS" to my signature but short of a few crying fits in the shower and car when I'm alone, I am so very, very thankful.
Based on everything I've read in a week, MS is a very manageable disease. The advances made in the past 20 years have made MS a chronic disease which can be managed while LIVING LIFE to the fullest! We all have aches and pains, without MS at the end of our name and truly, millions of families would trade places with us in a second. For this, I am so very thankful to sit here and read the MSWorld page vs sites dealing with end stage care, hospice, brain cancer, ALS or even Lupus. MS is a gift when compared to the other options out there...
My daughter completed the Solumedrol treatment, a six hour trial of Gilenya and is now on the daily. Just today, her limp seems a little better and she says that feeling is coming back to her pinky finger, praise the Lord. No matter what lies ahead, we are ready. We will be her armor and we will fight the fight with her!
So, I am thankful for this site and I look forward to expanding my world as I learn more about MS and fellow loved ones LIVING with MS!
I thank you for the opportunity to share this journey with you!
Michelle AKA "Mother of The Year!"
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